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		<title>Comment on The Appeal of the Flawed – In Fiction as on American Idol by Heart Over Head &#124; Kung Fu Daddy</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=131#comment-81</link>
		<dc:creator>Heart Over Head &#124; Kung Fu Daddy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 17:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] I&#8217;ve written elsewhere about the pleasures of over-indulgent works of art, here I felt unsatisfied. Chockfull of awesome set pieces, most notably an iconic fight in a bamboo [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I&#8217;ve written elsewhere about the pleasures of over-indulgent works of art, here I felt unsatisfied. Chockfull of awesome set pieces, most notably an iconic fight in a bamboo [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on There Goes the Neighborhood by Dave</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=158#comment-75</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 14:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, the classic &quot;New York has become lame&quot; lament. I believe this is happening in cities everywhere. Homogenization and gentrification have been taking over urban areas for quite some time now, largely as a result of globalization (of goods from chain stores) and safer cities. White flight became the White Return. Etc etc....]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, the classic &#8220;New York has become lame&#8221; lament. I believe this is happening in cities everywhere. Homogenization and gentrification have been taking over urban areas for quite some time now, largely as a result of globalization (of goods from chain stores) and safer cities. White flight became the White Return. Etc etc&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on There Goes the Neighborhood by Brian</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=158#comment-74</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 13:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Something about New Yorkers -- we love to romanticize and mythologize our city!

I was indeed thinking of late 90&#039;s Williamsburg. Thanks for your recollection. I think I remember those posters...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something about New Yorkers &#8212; we love to romanticize and mythologize our city!</p>
<p>I was indeed thinking of late 90&#8242;s Williamsburg. Thanks for your recollection. I think I remember those posters&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on There Goes the Neighborhood by Denis</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=158#comment-73</link>
		<dc:creator>Denis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 13:15:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my head I was thinking, &quot;Oh no! Not you, too, Brian!&quot; Another lament of a NYC that never was. Until your last sentence. Thank you.

You&#039;re probably thinking about the late 90&#039;s when you talk about Lost Williamsburg. You&#039;re right, it was very different. I spent months working on a film in a little place on Maujer, just off Leonard. At that time, posters of Guiliani as Nosferatu were popular - and the city &lt;i&gt;had already&lt;/i&gt; been lost.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my head I was thinking, &#8220;Oh no! Not you, too, Brian!&#8221; Another lament of a NYC that never was. Until your last sentence. Thank you.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re probably thinking about the late 90&#8242;s when you talk about Lost Williamsburg. You&#8217;re right, it was very different. I spent months working on a film in a little place on Maujer, just off Leonard. At that time, posters of Guiliani as Nosferatu were popular &#8211; and the city <i>had already</i> been lost.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Night of Literary Stars at the Little Star Salon by Jude</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=152#comment-70</link>
		<dc:creator>Jude</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 23:07:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Moral of the story: before emailing you, I shoulda checked your blog first.

Glad you had fun. Isn&#039;t Lena fantastic? And I know Cynthia Z. too - she read in my reading series in New Haven recently. Also fantastic.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moral of the story: before emailing you, I shoulda checked your blog first.</p>
<p>Glad you had fun. Isn&#8217;t Lena fantastic? And I know Cynthia Z. too &#8211; she read in my reading series in New Haven recently. Also fantastic.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sleepless Saga Continues by David Bucksner</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=126#comment-55</link>
		<dc:creator>David Bucksner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2011 12:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Excuse me for being so rough on you, Brian.  But consider this: bag the crib.  Get the kid his own futon.  Or a  single bed.  If you&#039;re paranoid, get one of those gates that slide into one side.  Or skip the box springs for now and put the mattress on the floor.  How would you like to sleep in a silly cage when you were old enough to stroll around?  The crib is like putting the kid in jail.  No wonder he hates it.

(P.S. Pseudo baby size beds don&#039;t count.  I mean a regular size twin bed -- with flashy branded sheets.  The kid will probably think big boy bed is a blast.)

Love your postings.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excuse me for being so rough on you, Brian.  But consider this: bag the crib.  Get the kid his own futon.  Or a  single bed.  If you&#8217;re paranoid, get one of those gates that slide into one side.  Or skip the box springs for now and put the mattress on the floor.  How would you like to sleep in a silly cage when you were old enough to stroll around?  The crib is like putting the kid in jail.  No wonder he hates it.</p>
<p>(P.S. Pseudo baby size beds don&#8217;t count.  I mean a regular size twin bed &#8212; with flashy branded sheets.  The kid will probably think big boy bed is a blast.)</p>
<p>Love your postings.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Watching Television with Mr. F by Tobias</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=136#comment-40</link>
		<dc:creator>Tobias</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 14:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Loved the post as well!  Have to say that my 3 1/2 month old loves to watch &quot;Mickey Mouse Clubhouse&quot; and anytime I sing &quot;Hot Dog&quot; from the show she smiles like crazy!  She also watches &quot;American Idol&quot; with intensity.  My wife and I try to also read her picture books and put her in her baby gym, but as a Director/ Screenwriter, I have to say that I want to teach her daddy&#039;s business early on!  lol]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Loved the post as well!  Have to say that my 3 1/2 month old loves to watch &#8220;Mickey Mouse Clubhouse&#8221; and anytime I sing &#8220;Hot Dog&#8221; from the show she smiles like crazy!  She also watches &#8220;American Idol&#8221; with intensity.  My wife and I try to also read her picture books and put her in her baby gym, but as a Director/ Screenwriter, I have to say that I want to teach her daddy&#8217;s business early on!  lol</p>
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		<title>Comment on Watching Television with Mr. F by Denis</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=136#comment-39</link>
		<dc:creator>Denis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 14:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great point on the screens, and the number of screens will only grow. Our little one already expects to be able to interact with the screen, too. But TV is a specific question because it&#039;s a passive medium. Less so than it used to be because many of put on a specific clip or show rather than whatever happens to be playing on Nickelodeon or PBS. We don&#039;t have any cable service, and the antennae can&#039;t pick up PBS, so everything on our screens is on demand.

We started letting her watch TV when she was a little over 1.5. Feist&#039;s fantastic music video from Sesame Street prompted us to purchase a couple of full episodes. At first my wife or I would sit and watch it with her and talk about what was going on. It didn&#039;t take long for us to realize it was a good time to prepare a meal or do the dishes. As you said, moderation is key. And discipline. Too much TV is like substance abuse. I&#039;ve seen kids throw the biggest fits in order to get more TV watching time. I think limiting the time and sticking to it helps kids understand how to self-moderate. I was happy when our little one was not yet two, but turned the TV off herself when I told her to. I was happier when halfway through an episode of Yo Gabba Gabba she said, &quot;All done,&quot; turned it off and started playing with blocks. Of course, she still throws fits from time to time. And there have been days when I let her watch too much because I just needed the time to work. Like your reference to your post on Patch, let&#039;s not be to hard on ourselves.

All that said, scientists &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/06/070627221722.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;may say that toddlers don&#039;t learn words from TV&lt;/a&gt;, but here&#039;s a little story:
We were on a long drive (for us), and we let the little one play with the iPad for a little while. She was under two, but good with a few &quot;edutainment&quot; apps. After 20 minutes or so, we said that was enough and put some music on. A little crying, but she contained herself.
&quot;Can I play iPad, please?&quot; she asked.
&quot;No, you already played with it enough. Do you want a book.&quot;
&quot;Persistent,&quot; she said quietly to herself. My wife and I looked at each other, startled. &quot;Can I play iPad, please?&quot; she asked again.
&quot;No, how about we sing along?&quot;
&quot;Persistent,&quot; she repeated, and then she asked again. No joke. While my wife and I use the word in conversation, I have no doubt that she was helped by a Sesame Street clip in which David Beckham and Elmo talk about the word.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point on the screens, and the number of screens will only grow. Our little one already expects to be able to interact with the screen, too. But TV is a specific question because it&#8217;s a passive medium. Less so than it used to be because many of put on a specific clip or show rather than whatever happens to be playing on Nickelodeon or PBS. We don&#8217;t have any cable service, and the antennae can&#8217;t pick up PBS, so everything on our screens is on demand.</p>
<p>We started letting her watch TV when she was a little over 1.5. Feist&#8217;s fantastic music video from Sesame Street prompted us to purchase a couple of full episodes. At first my wife or I would sit and watch it with her and talk about what was going on. It didn&#8217;t take long for us to realize it was a good time to prepare a meal or do the dishes. As you said, moderation is key. And discipline. Too much TV is like substance abuse. I&#8217;ve seen kids throw the biggest fits in order to get more TV watching time. I think limiting the time and sticking to it helps kids understand how to self-moderate. I was happy when our little one was not yet two, but turned the TV off herself when I told her to. I was happier when halfway through an episode of Yo Gabba Gabba she said, &#8220;All done,&#8221; turned it off and started playing with blocks. Of course, she still throws fits from time to time. And there have been days when I let her watch too much because I just needed the time to work. Like your reference to your post on Patch, let&#8217;s not be to hard on ourselves.</p>
<p>All that said, scientists <a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/06/070627221722.htm" rel="nofollow">may say that toddlers don&#8217;t learn words from TV</a>, but here&#8217;s a little story:<br />
We were on a long drive (for us), and we let the little one play with the iPad for a little while. She was under two, but good with a few &#8220;edutainment&#8221; apps. After 20 minutes or so, we said that was enough and put some music on. A little crying, but she contained herself.<br />
&#8220;Can I play iPad, please?&#8221; she asked.<br />
&#8220;No, you already played with it enough. Do you want a book.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Persistent,&#8221; she said quietly to herself. My wife and I looked at each other, startled. &#8220;Can I play iPad, please?&#8221; she asked again.<br />
&#8220;No, how about we sing along?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Persistent,&#8221; she repeated, and then she asked again. No joke. While my wife and I use the word in conversation, I have no doubt that she was helped by a Sesame Street clip in which David Beckham and Elmo talk about the word.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Pleasures of Overindulgence by Brian</title>
		<link>http://www.briangresko.com/blog/?p=20#comment-3</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Dec 2010 18:33:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Bible?! Funny, but yes. A good edit seems in order. Esp all those bits of begatting. &quot;And then Noah begat Ham, who begat...&quot;

I&#039;m not as versed in classical music, but Stravinsky&#039;s Firebird seems another to add to your list. The beautiful modernist parts contrasted by the folk music dances. Seems like it shouldn&#039;t work, but yet it does.

Thanks for your comment!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Bible?! Funny, but yes. A good edit seems in order. Esp all those bits of begatting. &#8220;And then Noah begat Ham, who begat&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not as versed in classical music, but Stravinsky&#8217;s Firebird seems another to add to your list. The beautiful modernist parts contrasted by the folk music dances. Seems like it shouldn&#8217;t work, but yet it does.</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Pleasures of Overindulgence by Sara E</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara E</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Dec 2010 18:24:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some classical examples come to mind...Ballanchine&#039;s &quot;Nutcracker,&quot; the ends of plenty of Beethoven&#039;s symphanies, the Bible...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some classical examples come to mind&#8230;Ballanchine&#8217;s &#8220;Nutcracker,&#8221; the ends of plenty of Beethoven&#8217;s symphanies, the Bible&#8230;</p>
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